Showing posts with label limiting beliefs. Show all posts
Showing posts with label limiting beliefs. Show all posts

Tuesday, May 08, 2012

Who is the real sculptor of your life?

Answer:
You

Let us see how!


We all keep saying certain words or sentences to ourselves repeatedly, several times a day and for several years. If you take notice of it, you would realize (shockingly though) that they are all (well almost) negative in nature.
For examples, it might pertain to negative outcome of an expected event or it would be negative confession that you are not qualified to participate and others would easily beat you and so on.

This is what they call ‘Affirmations’ and we are engraving our subconscious mind to perform according to our affirmations.

If only we learn to convert these saying (affirmations) to positive results and expectation, our life would be of eternal bliss. We have the power of to live like a king or manifest our wildest dreams by learning to affirm scientifically.
Yes, there are certain ways and rules to practice affirmations.

Affirmations once properly uttered become beliefs. We have already formed all our beliefs about health, fear, wealth and poverty though unconsciously affirming negative things.

Even though we engraved our subconscious mind (the real sculptor our life) with negative affirmations, we can erase them and reaffirm it with positive things; after all we are the author of our beliefs-right?

The actual purpose of affirming positive words is to release the negative feelings such as fear, apprehension and worry and to feel better. However, for the affirmations to work you must not only say something which makes you feel better but you have to virtually feel the words.

Here are a few popular affirmations:
•    I am healthy all around
•    I am loved
•    I am peaceful
•    I have money that I give out joyously


Go for it, learn affirmations scientifically.


Please take time to view this beautiful video clip on affirmations:

Friday, January 01, 2010

Why haven't you attracted the money you want?

Ask someone like me who firmly believes in the law of attraction, "Why haven't you attracted the money you want?" and the reply will be definitely "I don't know, can you tell me the answer?".

Consciously I may be practicing the law of attraction and would have seen some results in other areas of life but still I am not happy with the results when it comes to attracting money.

Why?

I have some limiting beliefs about money hidden safely in my subconscious mind. It is the case with all those who are not happy financially.

How to clear these limiting beliefs?

Do I have to meditate?
Do I have to pray?
Do I have to do penance in a forest?
Do I have to consult a hypnotist?

No! I don't have to do none of the above.

All I need to do is to listen to the Clearing for Money audio for a few minutes each day.

Visit the link to learn more!
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Wednesday, December 09, 2009

The causes and effects of our limiting beliefs.

I would like to examine the causes of certain beliefs in our life that act as mental blocks leading to a life of dissatisfaction and stunted growth.

If you think limiting beliefs are harmful, you are mistaken. It is much more than harmful and can really lead to stunted growth. Limiting beliefs are usually latent-I mean we are not even aware of them and what they do to us. They dictate our thoughts and attitudes that are detrimental to our growth.

Limiting beliefs-how and when they are formed.
Limiting beliefs settle in our subconscious mind starting from our early childhood days till our conscious mind starts evolving. While the minds of most of the human beings start waking up after 40 years, they cannot be generalized. For many, their mind remains the same till their death.

* We observe our parents and conclude certain things that are etched deeply in our subconscious mind.
* We act and the results remain in our memory for a long time.
* We read and assimilate things that don’t change our thoughts easily.
* We decide that might not have brought results as expected leading to form certain beliefs.

Overall, our thoughts and attitudes are shaped based on our beliefs that we take them as true. Such beliefs won’t let us look at future opportunities and experiences with a different perspective, thus tying us to a chain which hinders exploration of life with a positive frame of mind.

A few examples that form our limiting beliefs:
* When our parents favor their new born child that takes their attention away from us
* When our appearance is scorned
* When our academic performance is criticized
* When we are rejected by opposite sex
* When our choice of higher education is not approved
* When our marriage fails to blossom
* When we lose our investments
* When our advice to others bring undesired results

All these beliefs prevent us from taking the same actions that we took before because of fear of failure or rejection. We firmly (falsely) believe that the past results are the only absolute parameters of life. We are not interested in listening to our inner voice that continues to goad us with positive suggestions and we live a life of stunted growth. This deprives us of the true pleasures of a full life.

How my limiting beliefs were removed:
My limiting beliefs were dug out when I started thinking with self honesty. Whenever I was afraid to take action, I used to ask myself this question: “If he or she can do it, why can’t I”.

Also, Joe Vitale, who has authored several books on spiritual development, played a major role in my life transformation. His slogan which changed me inside out by acknowledging and removing my limiting beliefs: “Change your beliefs and change your life”.